It doesn’t matter that you win more arguments in a relationship, what really matters is your relationship/marriage. Here's how you can prevent most dead-end arguments.
Everyone in a relationship argues! It doesn’t matter that you win more quarrels or you prove yourself right, what really matters is your relationship/marriage. Most dead-end arguments can be prevented. You must realise that you are not alone; you have to think about your partner and the relationship too. (Image source:Getty)
There is a difference between anger and rage. Anger itself is not destructive, but rage is. A rage full behaviour is when all you want is break things or relationships and burst on your partner. (Image source:Getty)
Whenever you get angry, it is better to talk about your feelings. You just need to be verbalized to avoid arguments and your partner will know how you feel. (Image source:Getty)
When there is an argument and there seems no way out, you should take a break. Step out of the room and come back when things appear calmer. It is one of the easiest ways to deal with arguments going nowhere. (Image source:Getty)
It is not dealing with a war of words, but there are fun ways to end it. Find humour in the argument to keep the mood light. When something goes wrong, crack a joke or do anything that will make your partner burst into laughter. (Image source:Getty)
Just like you know the points where you agree with your partner, you must take a moment to address the issues where there is a disagreement. Talk about the disagreements and you will prevent many quarrels that may happen. (Image source:Getty)
Raising your voice can hurt feelings or can lead to more differences. Don’t raise your voice, settle things with a whisper. If you communicate with a whisper instead of yelling, it significantly reduces the anger factor in their relationships. (Image source:Getty)
With every argument, your relationship becomes weaker. Arguments can put partner in a panic mode or is a way to tell them that you want to leave. Do you want to see them sink in depression? Don’t start it in the first place. (Image source:Getty)
The solution to quarrels is - calm down and talk it out, but not stockpile. If you have unresolved feelings from past problems, talk about them. (Image source:Getty)
'I'm right!', you may declare a win over your partner in an argument but it doesn’t make things easier for future. Don’t just fixate on who's right or wrong, instead find a solution that strengthens your bonding with the partner. (Image source:Getty)
The process of anger can badly hit you physically and emotionally. Anger is self destructor; body releases chemicals that may inflict damage in many ways. Learn how to understand your and your partner’s feelings. (Image source:Getty)
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