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Signs that she is Leading you on and Taking you Nowhere

If you are with a girl who is playing you and using you for her entertainment while you are blindly in love with her, you must start looking for signs that will help you identify her true colours.

Dating By Vasudha Bhat / Feb 24, 2015

Don't Let her Toy you!

Are you with a girl who is as warm as the winter sun in the morning and by the time the day ends she makes you feel miserably unwanted? What can you do if you are head-over-heels in love with a girl who is dating you, shows interest in you and still does not like to address you as her boyfriend? That is a tough situation. Isn’t it? If you can relate to any of the above-mentioned situations, you surely are falling for a girl who is leading you nowhere.

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A Nameless Relationship

You both go out for romantic dinner dates, you flirt with her and she accepts your advances and in return she also indulgences in some flirtatious talks. However, when it comes to giving a name to the relationship, she takes a step back and prefers to call you a good friend.

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She Gets Intimate with Whenever it Pleases Her

She cuddles up, gets cozy and does everything a girlfriend would do. But, it is her who decides when to me intimate and lovey-dovey. You have to really wait for her to be loving towards you before you decide to plunge.

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The Relationship is a Secret

Some of her friends may know that the two of you are close and might date in the future but, that something is already there between the two of you is not public yet. She is secretive about the relationship and she prefers to keep it that way.

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She Maintains a Distance

When you give her a lot of attention or try to get clingy with her, she prefers to be alone and aloof. She likes to maintain a distance from you.

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Then, She Wants to Get Closer!

This is weird! Really weird! When you let her be the way she wants to be, there is a sudden switch in her mood and behaviour. She suddenly starts craving for your attention and wants you the way you were.

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She did not Date Many Guys in the Past

Have you heard her claiming that she has not dated many guys in the past? If you thought that it was in your favour, you are so wrong. Being in few relationships in the past means that she was toying other men’s heart too. If there is a guy you know whom she has dated but she claims that they were only good friends, it is a clear indication that she is a player.

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She Appears to be Helpless

You often get convinced that she needs you and that you hold a very important place in her life. She makes herself appear weak and helpless without your advice and support. She often comes up with things like there is no other person in her life who is so close to her and she does not know what she would do without you.

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