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10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Sex

Here we have compiled a list of 10 things we men wish women knew about sex.

Snr By Ariba Khaliq / Feb 11, 2014

Listen up Ladies!

Men may be clueless, or shy, or polite to express the actual stuff about sex to women but they secretly wish their women to know these things. The bedroom is a stage for male performance and unmasking a few facts help you ladies learn what your guy is really thinking. Here we have compiled a list of 10 things we men wish women knew about sex.

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Men Respond to Praises

Compliments can work as strong catalysts when it comes to sexual confidence. Tell him “Oh baby, you are so big” or "I really like the way you keep so still while I am climaxing" to boost his confidence. Be affirmative about his guts, measurable organs, his hair, and other attributes.

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Men aren’t Multi-taskers

If you are expecting him to make love to you and profess his feelings at the same time, you are about to be disappointed. Men can only focus on one thing at a time and sex is a better option for them.

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Men Appreciate Sex for Sex’s Sake

“Throw-me-down-sex” is the right medicine for them. Men want their wives to enjoy raw sex, not just endure it or take it personally. For men, it’s not about dominating a woman, but ravishing her.

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Men Have Many Erogenous Zones

Other than penis! A woman should touch a lot of other places like the chest, the inner thighs, and face. Gently gripping a man’s testicles can be a real turn-on, as it blends control with release. Also, stimulating the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, will heighten pleasure during oral sex.

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Men Encourage Fantasies

They might not say it for they fear shame and judgement from wives but men wish women would reveal their imaginings. You must not judge your man and ask him his sexual fantasies. Give it a shot the next time if you’re both comfortable with it.

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Men Like it when You Talk

Dirty! And praising and intrusive- talking during sex stimulates men. A woman’s words can make a guy feel as potent and virile as a Roman warrior.

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Don’t Pity his Privates

There may be sometimes when his erections may go south; don’t be “Aww, its OK” when that happens. No guy wants you to pity his privates. Instead, give him a foot rub or a nice back massage—anything to let him know that his (currently out-of-commission) penis isn’t going to get in the way of your commitment to loving the rest of his body.

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Men Like Hand Job

Better than oral sex! So you can give your jaw some rest, pick a bottle of lubricant and trout out your talent. Shhh! This secret was revealed through a blindfold test.

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Men Love to Watch You Masturbate

And it will improve their oral sex skills. Showing him how you want him to go down on you is better than telling him. Which is why his asking you to play with yourself isn’t for him; it’s for you. See, turns out your guy’s a philanthropist.

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Men See Sex as a Celebration

On the long list of priorities, sex should not be on the bottom rung. Orgasms release oxytocin, which has been called the “bonding hormone,” bringing couples closer together while it alleviates anxiety and stress, reduces blood pressure and promotes healing. Men wish women would take more of a ‘carpe diem’ approach to sex.

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