May 03, 2013
Kamasutra is the ancient book on lovemaking; you can in fact, call it more than a manual of love making, it goes beyond the realms of mere sexual intercourse. Things in our lives happen so fast that we tend to rush through everything, even sex for that matter. Kamasutra teaches us to go slow and make things spicier and foreplay is as important as the real act in itself. The entire fun of the game of sex is what leads to the final act, and if this act comes and goes in the speed of light then the experience is pretty much ruined.
[Read: What is Kama Sutra?]
Create an atmosphere of love with your dear one following these Kamasutra steps for foreplay mentioned below:
Kamasutra says that foreplay involves embracing your partner before the actual sexual intercourse, but there is a difference between this and a hug. When you embrace the Kamasutra way, you are using more of your body than the arms. In this act you are expected to touch, rub, pierce, and press with the front part of your body. By doing this you are creating a touching sensation and you should deter from using your hands immediately. Lay some soft kisses and brush against each other’s lips.
Kamasutra says that kissing should be done in moderation, and this is an important fact. The fact is that increasing speed and intensity of kissing will end up accelerating the entire process. When doing foreplay you must remember to take things slow, you can definitely kiss anywhere you wish to, but it is advisable that you start to explore some other places rather than the zones where sexual stimulation is at its height.
[Read: How to Kiss]
The use of nails is beneficial for three useful moves, they can be used for pressing, marking, or scratching. This is usually done when the action gets too intense, do not use it at an early stage or else it will not be of any use. The nail actions can be done in four different situations as per the book, on the first visit, at the time of setting out on a journey, on the return of a journey and after reconciliation of a fight. This action can be done in conjunction with bites, but be mild, do not use much force.
Bite plays a very important role, and therefore an entire chapter is dedicated on it in the Kama Sutra. It says that all those places that can be kissed can also be bitten, but exceptions include the upper lip, the interior of the mouth, and the eyes. The different kinds of bite include:
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It is very important that biting is done with the consent of your partner; some may not like it as much.
Sexual unions usually give us the idea that the man is taking charge of the entire thing, and the woman is just there submitting to him. This is in stark contrast to what Kamasutra has to say, the book expects women to be on the forefront of the sex game too. Kamasutra encourages the woman to act her sexual aggression and to take control of sex, this is especially expected of her during the foreplay. Therefore, the woman should not shy away from acting out her fancies, be on top of the man.
Foreplay is the appetizer for sex, best served slow and hot.
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