Apr 20, 2012
Communication is a perquisite to keep your relationship strong and going. Lack of communication in a relationship put couples in awkward situation, who keep figuring out ways to clear misunderstandings. Therefore, there must be interaction at all times to face ups and downs in a relationship. Attempts to improve communication with your partner will make your relationship stronger.
A relationship can become toxic as a result of communication gap. Arguments are inevitable in a relationship, which are to be sorted out calmly. Individuals in a relationship must realise significance of resolving differences in order to keep their relationship alive. Every individual must be open with his/her partner, involving them in their concerns, events and opinions. Talk freely about differences in order to resolve these rather than keeping to yourself.
1. Acknowledge Each Other: Acknowledging each other is quite essential in a relationship. Pay attention to partner’s feelings and you will be rewarded with the same in return. Never ignore her/his feelings, even if you don’t have any answer. In that circumstance, you can just nod or revert with simple phrase like ‘I understand’.
2. Involve Him/Her: Making relationship stronger is a gradual process, don’t expect overnight miracles. A responsive communication is much-needed for earning trust and love of a partner. Therefore, you need to get involved in each other’s lives.
3. Be a Good Listener: Every remark is as meaningful. Therefore, listen carefully to what your partner is saying.
4. Be Cautious during Arguments: You might utter something abusive in nature in a heated argument, but regret it later. Therefore, choose your words carefully during arguments. You need to cool heated atmosphere, not to fuel it further.
5. Don’t Push to Win Arguments: One need to realise that winning every argument is not necessary. Avoid pointless issues by accepting partner’s opinion even when she/he is wrong. Learn to compromise.
6. Immediate Action: If something bothers you or you feel like discussing it with partner, don’t hesitate to tell him/her. Make a move immediately to communicate the same.
7. Humour: Introduce humour to keep atmosphere light, whenever you have an opportunity to do so.
8. Foster Love: Making attempts to foster love will bring happiness in your life. Don’t think of right or wrong. One must always seek a meaningful objective in attempts to keep relationship alive. In this manner, you can strengthen and love, trust and understanding.
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